On June 16, security was called when a young man on a Shenyang subway crumbled after an old man demanded that he'd give up his seat for him. In a video of the incident, which soon went viral, the young man can be heard screaming: "Are you giving me money? No? Then don't bother me! I'm just happy to be sitting here. What's wrong with me grabbing a seat? - What's On Weibo.
Here is another incident:Over the past few weeks, there has been a lot of discussion on Chinese social media about young people refusing to give up their seats for older people on the subway, sometimes leading to explosive situations. On June 16, security was called when a young man on a Shenyang subway… pic.twitter.com/C5lTvVNIiQ
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Does this indicate something more profound is happening within Chinese culture? Are the elderly generally unhappy and taking it out on Gen Z? Are stresses being built up in China?Another subway incident went trending a week later. On June 24, a 65-year-old man started harassing a young woman on Beijing Subway Line 10 after she refused to give up his seat to him. The man became aggressive, started slapping the woman, and put his cane in between her legs,… pic.twitter.com/khVr47hlJN
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Giving up your seat to an elderly person on public transport falls more on the side of courtesy than a strict duty.
There might be designated priority seating on some public transport that requires you to vacate the seat for someone who needs it, but in general, it's a social norm and a kind gesture.
Here's why it's seen as courtesy:
- It's voluntary: You choose to offer the seat, not because you're forced to.
- There can be exceptions: There might be unseen reasons why someone needs to sit (invisible disability, for example).
However, it's a widely accepted courtesy because it shows respect for someone who may have difficulty standing for long periods.